Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Where have the months gone?

So it's obvious I haven't posted in several months. There have been so many times I wanted to write but then just couldn't do it. There are 2 major "things" that have been transpiring since January and I'm not allowed to publicly talk about them. So, it was just easier to not update.

I'm still not able to say much but I do feel a bit of resolution and perhaps a positive outcome can still happen!

Life in general at the MacKinnon house is very good. The kids are great - healthy, happy, doing well in school, getting along together pretty good. Life has been a lot calmer since I left my job at Canadian Blood Services - I am LOVING being home. I am selling Silpada Jewellery and really, really enjoy it. Silpada makes a fine piece of jewellery but best of all it is Fair Trade. I am proud to visit people's home and share our jewellery with them. Click here if you want to read more or are interested in hosting a party. (Great hostess benefits...FREE jewellery).

Chris and I are starting to really experience life with "tweens". All of you out there changing diapers and chasing toddlers around - ENJOY IT! Actually, it's not all terrible. Caleb is an incredible baby sitter for Evan and Alyssa. They love it when he looks after them, jumps on the trampoline with them, reads to them, lets them stay up later than they're supposed to....

It's true that kids begin to think their parents don't know anything. I keep trying to tell Caleb that I am a highly educated, ambitious, motivated and "with-it" adult so I know what I'm talking about. But he's not buying it. Seriously, he thinks he knows more than me!

Dylan is not quite there yet (he's 11) - although he can beat me any day at a game of "Boggle" and just about any other game but I'm still smarter than him. Those games don't matter. I'm still smarter.

Alyssa and Evan are doing great. Alyssa is now part of a competitive gymnastics team and she is so adorable. Every time I watch her do her little mat routine I want to cry. So, so sweet. Evan has come so far. We have noticed many changes in his behavior (for the better) in the last 6 months. He is much more settled, seems more calm. He used to be so antsy it was like he was trying to get out of his own skin. Sometimes we couldn't hug him or be close to him, he just couldn't handle it. Much, much better now. He still talks about China all the time. Still longs to see his "mama and baba" in China. Is nervous that he won't be able to go back to China because he forgets a lot of the language. Still insists China is better in every way. Their fish is better. Their cheese is better. Their rice and noodles are better. ALL food in China is way better than ours. But, he did tell me the other day there was one thing better about Canada than China - his family. He is so precious. And really, that's the most important thing anyway so I'm glad (almost 2 years later) he is able to say he is happy with his Canadian family! :-)

There may be some exciting news to share down the road.....would love to spill it but it may be premature so I'll wait. Don't want to jinx anything.

I tried to get the camera to upload some pics from Mother's Days but my boys have once again claimed it. They love to make movies with our camera and every time I go to use it the batteries are dead. Then when I get it working again, I download tons of footage of zombie and vampire movies starring my children and their friends. Fake blood and everything. Life. You just never know where it will take you.

6 comments:

Mammarazzi Madness said...

Hi Tammy, Thanks for the email. So happy to hear about the play groups in Summerside. We hope to be there mid August.So excited. We toured the area on Saturday and fell in love.
I've got your number and may give you a call to meet once we are settled in. It's quite funny- when we started the adoption journey with Aly and were researching FOI we found your blog and read all about your journey and then made the decision to use FOI based on your story. Funny where our life paths takes us .....gosh, we're almost neighbors now ! lol
Again, thanks for the information. Very helpful.
Andrea

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Anonymous said...

Hi Tammy,



My name is David Weeks from Stanley Bridge and my wife (Sophie) and I are currently looking into adoption. We are currently living overseas in Dubai UAE and have been here for 3 years but are planning on returning to PEI within a short time. As the adoption waiting period in Canada is so long we are looking into international adoption, in partitular Ethiopia as logistically we are very handy for the travel requirements.



We have just stumbed upon your website and many of the google searches tend to have your name attached so I hope you dont mind my email and questions.



Is there currently a support group of international adoptive parents on the island that meet for trading information and stories of their processes and challenges ?



Is there any support groups for the children or play dates etc to help them interact with their new environments ?



We will be in PEI from Dec. 14 to Dec. 28, and we were wondering if there are there any support group meetings planned?



Thank you for your time and I hope to hear from you soon,



David and Sophie
dweeks_53@hotmail.com

L Garcia Muro said...

May you and your family continue to be blessed. In proverbs 13:12, Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.

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