Sunday, September 30, 2007

We need your prayers!

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the sweet emails about Alyssa and her adorable picture! She is a cutie-pie, but then again so are the other 51 children in the contest. All children are! The contest is open until October 11th so you still have lots of time to vote.


Chris and I received the exciting news that our homestudy is completed which means it just needs to be signed off by the Province and then all our documents, paperwork and homestudy will be sent to our agency, Kids Link. It will be translated and prepared for Ethiopia and then it will be sent to Ethiopia to be matched with our daughter!! I am such a sap but I couldn't help but cry when I read through the homestudy and realized we are so close to being matched with our daughter!! It is so emotional and exciting.


But, Chris and I truly need your prayers right now. We have about $4000 towards our adoption expenses but we need $12,500 BEFORE we are allowed to send our file to Ethiopia. We need to pay our agency fees and we also need to include a $6000 donation for our daughter's orphanage (this is mandatory for every adoption). So, we do not want to have to delay sending our file to Ethiopia because that means we will have to wait a lot longer to be matched with our daughter. So, please pray for our financial situation right now...we are in a draw for $10,000 on Oct 2nd and it would be so great if we won that!! (We bought a van from KIA and every one who did had their name put in the draw).


I am trying to think of another fundraiser to do to help with some of our costs. Even if we could raise the $6000 for the orphanage donation it would be a huge help!!! If you have any ideas, please let me know.


The things that may be impossible for men pose no problem for God because, as Jesus said, "With God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)


"Ask, and it shall be given to you; seek, and you shall find it; knock, and it shall be opened to you. For whoever asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, the door is opened." (Matthew 7:7-8)

I know these verses are true but at times we are so overcome with "how will we ever find the money" that we forget to trust in God and all that he promises!


Please pray!!!

Saturday, September 29, 2007

VOTE FOR ALYSSA - MAKE WISHES COME TRUE

Hi!

Alyssa has been entered into PEI's "Wishes Do Come True" child portrait contest. 100% of the money raised from the voting will go towards the PEI Chapter of the Children's Wish Foundation. Here is the photo of Alyssa that was entered...


To vote all you have to do is send in your vote to:

Boily Photo
248 MacEwen Rd.
Summerside PE
C1N 2P6

EACH VOTE IS $1 - again all donations go to the Children's Wish Foundation
Send in a cheque with however much you would like to donate - for example $20 = 20 votes for Alyssa.
On a piece of paper, along with your cheque make sure you write the following info..

"Wishes Do Come True" Contest
Child's Name: Alyssa Li MacKinnon
Parents Names: Chris and Tammy MacKinnon
Number of Votes: _____

You can also vote using a credit card and to do this please call Boily Photo at (902) 436-5311 and give them Alyssa's information.

Thanks!!!! How fun if Alyssa won!

Tammy

Friday, September 28, 2007

CBC Interview and EXCITING NEWS

I did an interview with CBC Radio this morning - along with another adopting family on PEI. We are discussing some of our concerns and issues with the international adoption issues on PEI. The interview will be on Monday morning between 6:30-8:30. I'll let you know the exact time when I know. Alyssa and I will also be interviewed by CBC TV on Monday and it will air on the CBC news that evening.

As for our exciting news....go to our family's charity blog at www.twohomesoneheart.blogspot.com and check out the pictures! Our family has been helping Alyssa's orphanage (she is adopted from Hunan, China) over the last year and our biggest project so far has been raising money for a playground for the orphanage. Well, it's finally finished and we have pictures of the children and nannies enjoying the new play equipment! We are so thrilled for the children! So, jump on over and check out our other blog.

Tammy

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

WE NEED YOUR HELP!

The adoption community in PEI is asking for your support and for your help! A group of us, representing the adoption community, met with Premier Ghiz to discuss some of our concerns in regards to international adoption through PEI. The general feeling among families adopting internationally is that the Province is not supporting our decision to adopt from other countries. There are decisions being made by the Province that directly affect our Island families and their adoption processes. We are asking you to support us by reading the letter below and sending it off to the people we have listed! This is urgent as families are waiting to be united with their children! Thank you! Even if you are not an adoptive parent or in the process of adopting, you can show your support by mailing/emailing the letter.

Please feel free to add a personal message to your letter!!!

You can FAX your letter, MAIL IT via snailmail or EMAIL it.

Also, I have done an interview with CBC Radio and it will be aired Thursday morning. I'll post the exact time when I know. It will also be on their website. The interview talks about the adoption issues on PEI and what we are asking from the Province.
_______________________________________


Premier Robert Ghiz
95 Rochford Street
P.O. Box 2000
Charlottetown, PE
C1A 7N8
rwjghiz@gov.pe.ca



Dear Premier Ghiz:


I am writing to express support for the adoptive parents of PrinceEdward Island – the very province known for the story of a famousorphan – who have raised concerns with the provincial governmentregarding the international adoption programs in the province.


Island families have requested a reversal of the policy decisionregarding the Waiting Child program – a decision that has eliminatedany waiting child referrals where matching is done by the agencies.These processes are currently accepted by every other province in thecountry and the waiting child program is virtual inaccessible outsideof this system. I encourage you to follow the processes set out byChina, whereby the agencies are delegated the authority to do thematching (respecting of course the Province's final role in approvingevery match). Families with open waiting child applications are beingaffected by this decision at this very moment.


Island families have also requested concrete regulations and policieswith regards to all aspects of international adoption, ranging fromcountry programs available to Island families, to age of child, tosibling groups, to single adoption, to family eligibility guidelines,to concurrent adoptions, and to transparency & appeals.


Families in your community have also raised concerns regardingaccountability from the provincial government. By allowing each andevery family to review their referrals when they arrive in PEI,families would be able to supply additional information or makerequests for homestudy amendments should there be discrepanciesbetween the referral details and the child request. It would beregrettable to have families lose their only chance at adoption simplybecause the Province has decided not to share information until andonly if the referral sent in their name is approved.


I urge you to commit to an active support of the internationalprograms and to clearly embrace and formalize options for Islandfamilies. I encourage you to investigate the underlying reasons forthe Province's decision to effectively stop the international adoptionof children with medical needs, and, also, to respond to the PEIAdoption Coalition's requests for an overall review of PEI'sinternational adoption procedures to ensure accountability andtransparency.


I suggest to you that there needs to be a very quick and seriousreconsideration of this action, or the face that PEI presents to thecountry and, indeed, the world, will look not only ill-informed, butalso intolerant. I believe you will discover that the agencies arewell-equipped to undertake the matching as assigned by China, thatinternational adoption will yield benefits for the children, thefamilies, and PEI as a whole, and that these children are deserving ofthe loving families who wish to adopt them, no matter what provincethe families live in.


Sincerely yours,







CC: Hon. Doug W. Currie – Minister of Social Services and Seniors,PEI
dwcurrie@gov.pe.ca

PEI Adoption Coalition – peiadoptioncoalition@gmail.com

Nancy Russell (CBC) -- nancy_russell@cbc.ca (nancy "underscore"Russell)



In PEI, please write your letters to Premier Ghiz and CC them to Minister Currie, MPs Shawn Murphy, Wayne Easter, Lawrence MacAulay,Joe McGuire, Prime Minister Stephen Harper and Opposition Leader, Stephane Dion, the PEI adoption coalition group, and Nancy Russell of CBC.



Outside of PEI, please write your letters to the Premier of PEI, Robert Ghiz, and CC it to the Premier of your province, Prime Minister, Stephen Harper and Opposition Leader, Stephane Dion, and the PEI Adoption coalition group.

Addresses you will need:

Prime Minister Stephen Harper
Office of the Prime Minister
80 Wellington Street
Ottawa, ON
K1A 0A2
Fax: 613-941-6900
Harper.S@parl.gc.capm@pm.gc.ca

Shawn Murphy
75 Fitzroy Street, Suite 201
Charlottetown, Prince Edward Island
C1A 1R6
murphs1c@parl.gc.ca
Murphy.S@parl.gc.ca

Wayne Easter
P.O. Box 70
Hunter River, Prince Edward Island
C0A 1N0
Telephone: (902) 964-2428
Fax: (902) 964-3242
E-Mail: eastew1@parl.gc.caE-Mail: Easter.W@parl.gc.ca

Lawrence MacAulay
P.O. Box 1150,
551 Main Street, Suite 202
Montague, Prince Edward Island
C0A 1R0
Telephone: (902) 838-4139
Fax: (902) 838-3790
E-Mail: macaul1@parl.gc.ca

Joe McGuire
94 Central Street
Summerside, Prince Edward Island
C1N 3L3
Telephone: (902) 436-7333
Fax: (902) 436-0175
E-Mail: McGuire.J@parl.gc.ca

Stephane Dion
750 Marcel Laurin Boulevard,
Suite 440
Saint-Laurent, Quebec
H4M 2M4
Telephone: (514) 335-6655
Fax: (514) 335-2712
E-Mail: dions1@parl.gc.caE-Mail: Dion.S@parl.gc.ca

Monday, September 24, 2007

The Most Amazing Day!

We had our Yard Sale on Saturday and what an amazing day it turned out to be. Chris and I were so moved by the many family and friends who came to help us with the event. People helped us make posters, load the truck, unload the truck (at 6:30 am!!), sell items, donate items and then of course, many people came to our sale and bought items. THANK YOU to the many friends and family and strangers who supported our family!

Are you ready..... the grand total from our Yard Sale was $1173.60! WOW! We were blown away. The most expensive item we sold was only $35!

God truly blessed us!.... but wait! There's more! At about 1:15 we called the Radio stations to announce that anyone who wanted to come to the sale could take whatever they wanted for free. We had a few people show up and they all took stuff which was great. There were still a lot of items left and we really didn't want to drag it all home again! Well, a van pulled up and out jumped 4 men. They were from Thailand and had just arrived in PEI only TWO DAYS BEFORE. They had come in a group of 18 - husbands, wives and their children. They had been living in refugee camps for a very long time so they came to PEI with very little. They were able to fill the back of the van with tons of adult clothing, kids clothes, jackets, boots, shoes, mitts, hats, toys and lots of other items. That was really the highlight of the whole day!! It was amazing to be able to help them and to see their happy faces!!! God is so amazing!


The "Lemonaid for Hope" Stand


Lots of items for sale!

People browsing for deals! And there were lots of deals. At 10:30 we marked everything 1/2 price. Our most expensive item sold for $35 - it was a captain's bed (single) with the mattress. Now that was a steal of a deal!!!

The kids having fun! This box was full of stuffed animals for sale but Alyssa and her friends had more fun playing in it than selling them!

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Heartfelt song and video

Please skip over to our family's charity blog, Two Homes One Heart, to check out a really amazing song/video. It speaks exactly the words and feelings of my heart! Enjoy!
www.twohomesoneheart.blogspot.com

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Homestudy is COMPLETE!

WOW! I'm so excited to report our homestudy is now complete. We started our first meeting on August 22 and last night (Sept 17) we finished it. Our SW is going to write it up ASAP and she has told us Provincial Approval takes about 2 weeks. We requested a girl between the ages of 2.5 - 3.5 at time of referral! The next step (after Provincial Approval) is to have our file sent to our Agency - Kids Link and have all our documents translated and prepared for Ethiopia. When this is done, the file will come back to the Province (not sure why? So the Provincial Adoption Coordinator can review its translation????) and then it will be sent to Ethiopia to be matched with our child!

So, the scary part is we need to have $12,500 ready to send with our file when it goes to Ethiopia. Without these little "faith testers" life just wouldn't be any fun now would it?! We are praying God will help us be diligent in saving any extra money we have and will make our little fundraisers very successful! Unfortunately, all I can think about is the excitement of being ONE STEP CLOSER to our daughter!


We are hosting a Yard Sale to help with some of the costs. Included in our adoption fees is a $6000 donation to the orphange where our daughter is currently living. 100% of this donation will go to help our daughter and all the other children and provide necessities to care for them on a daily basis. This is the money we are hoping to raise through our Yard Sale and other small fundraisers.

When: Saturday, September 22nd, 2007
(Raindate September 29th)
Where: Calvary Temple Parking Lot (Ch’town)
Time: 8:00am – 1:00pm

A great selection of furniture, bedding, boys & girls clothing (in great condition!), adult clothing, DVDs, games, lots of toys, books and many household items!!!

Enjoy lemonade, cookies and other great treats
at Caleb, Dylan and Alyssa’s “Lemonade for Hope” stand!

Mmmmmm....Yummy!


Pease join us in sharing our love!

Friday, September 14, 2007

DANCE!

Alyssa started her first step/tap dance classes. She loves to dance and was so excited to go. She was very shy when we first took her in and then she saw the little girls dancing and clapping with step music playing and it took her about oh....10 seconds and she was dancing with them!!

Caleb started guitar lesson this week and can't wait to get practicing. I hope he's a great musician like his dad! (don't have a picture - sorry Caleb!)


Dylan is in his 3rd week of hockey camp and he has about 2 more weeks to go and then on to try-outs. He loves hockey!!!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

A picture in our local paper...

The other day I didn't get any pictures for Alyssa's 1st day at Chinese school but apparently The Guardian did. How exciting to open the paper and see Alyssa and Wendi! Wendi has been an amazing support to our family - she has made us some delicious chinese food and is always willing to share about Alyssa's culture and country. I was really happy to see Alyssa's picture was with Wendi!!! The caption reads "Wendi Dai shows three year old Alyssa Li some books in Chinese at the orientation for the Chinese Language and Culture School of PEI. The school is being offered at the Murphy Community Center in Charlottetown to help children learn the Chinese language, culture adn history, and to cultivate a sense of national spirit."

Monday, September 10, 2007

Chinese School...

Alyssa started Chinese school yesterday. It is going to be held every Saturday morning from 9-11:30. She was a bit shy yesterday as she's not used to being around so many people but by the end of the school time she was practicing writing chinese characters with her brothers and meeting some other children. There are about 30-40 children from China participating in the school so we are really glad to have Alyssa exposed to more of her culture and a chance to learn mandarin!! I didn't get any pictures, though...

On the adoption front...our SW had to cancel our homestudy meeting this week but she has still assured us she will have the homestudy written and handed in to the Province by the end of September. Unfortunately we are still waiting for Chris' fingerprints to come back from Ottawa. Mine were returned in two weeks but we've been waiting more than 2 months for Chris'. We can still send our dossier to Kids Link so they can start working on our file but we can't send our dossier to Ethiopia without the fingerprints.

More later....

The three kiddies...

Friday, September 7, 2007

Back to School

Well, after a great summer with the kids it is time for school. The boys were very excited to get back to school and see their friends. I guess "mom" can only entertain them for so long before I'm not cool enough. Hmmm.... We did have a great summer and we did many different activities but getting back into routine is always nice.


Caleb - 1st day of Gr. 6!
Dylan - 1st day of Gr. 4. I can't believe I let him go to school with that hairdo but we both have very different opinions on what looks "cool" for Gr. 4!

Alyssa and I set up a little "classroom" in our Rec. room for Alyssa to go to school. We are learning lots of fun things like ABC's, shapes, colors, weather, seasons, sounds, etc... She is beyond excited about having school with me. Today she was calling me "teacher" instead of "mom". Too funny!

Monday, September 3, 2007

We talked with our SW and we only need one more meeting and we will be done our homestudy meetings! YAY! She also said she wants to work as quickly as possible to get it written up and submitted to the Province for Approval so we are thrilled about that!!!! Keeping our fingers crossed to have it sent to Kids Link by the end of September!!!!!

We are having a huge yard sale on September 15th (8-1) with many families joining in to support us. The tentative location is Maritime Christian College on University Ave. I'll let you know if it changes. We are also having a food concession with tons of great treats - caramel popcorn, regular popcorn, candied apples, water, pop, etc... Our kids are doing their lemonade stand (see picture below) and will have lemondade, homemade cookies and popsicles for sale! Too cute!



Alyssa at her lemonade stand - she made $54 in 1/2 hour.

Alyssa in her new dance outfit. She begins step & tap lessons next week. She is so excited!


Rollerblading dudes!
Dylan
Caleb